Lifting In Arms Factor:
Well, lifting wife in arms by her beloved husband and then taking her from place to a different in home, public place, hotel etc is fairly entertaining and making people happy too much. Housewives feel happy when they see in serials husband lifts his spouse just in case she walks bare feet to a temple to fulfill her wish (for husband's prosperity and good health) to a mythical God and hurts her foot.
Women keep expecting the same thing from their husbands and imagine that may be one day their husbands would lift them inside their arms and take them from the living area to bedroom or from vegetable market to home just walking and individuals are wondering and wondering and saying inside "Why? Is this magic? Oh, she is definitely very lucky." But in reality many husbands in India seem quite reluctant to lift their wives for just about any reason especially after marriage. Exceptions might be there in a few rare cases. When husbands (before marriage) were lovers they should have lifted their lovers but after they're in a responsibility role they get tired, bored and in some way don't feel happy to accomplish such things for the obvious reasons. Women complain too to their husbands once they watch serial actors (characters) lifting actresses inside their arms. Please have an in depth look at the following conversation between a man and wife (both middle aged) while watching lifting in arms scene in TV serial:-
The husband is busy taking care of his laptop and simultaneously watching TV serial with his wife to make her happy. He's least enthusiastic about television serials but sometimes he agrees to fulfill his wife's wish. It is 8pm. Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Watch Online Husband is sitting beside his wife just to be controlled by her just in case she passes any comment about any character's behavior etc. The wife went totally into her favorite serial. A few momemts later, each of a sudden, she starts clapping her hands; the husband is startled, he discusses her with wonder and then moves his eyes to the television screen. He asks his wife with a little curiosity "What happened dear?" The wife is busy in watching the scene. She doesn't hear him. He asks her again "I never saw you so happy. You clapped your hands. I can easily see that there isn't any cricket match going on only at that time. Would you please tell me what made you clapped suddenly?" Now the wife discusses her husband with some anger inside and says "You won't believe me if I tell you." She mutes the channel whilst the commercial break comes and keeps the remote in her hand. Husband "Obviously, I'll believe you."
Wife "Didn't you watch the way Geeta's husband lifted her in his arms and took her to the temple? Actually she hurt her foot. And now it's bleeding. So he lifted. So sweet!!! So romantic!!! But what I feel honey; she shouldn't have gone bare feet to the temple. What do you consider?"
The husband listens to his wife attentively and then asks a concern casually "Who is Geeta, dear?"
"Oh, I'm discussing this character. You know she's my favorite. You appear to almost forget all my favorite actors."
"Oh, just how can I forget that? Only this Geeta I didn't know."
"I wish my husband takes me to the temple just like that. She is indeed lucky to own that strong man. I'm feeling so happy you know. Have you ever taken me that way even once? See simply how much her husband loves her. That's how you can express love. You've never expressed your love like Gaeta's husband. You know, he says I really like one to her nearly every day. And just look at yourself."
"Ha Ha!! You know Gaeta's husband is not her real husband so he is able to say 'I really like you' to her on a daily basis." He has a pause and then continues "That's just a serial my dear. It's a fiction. Those activities aren't real. And just look at you and your weight. How do I lift you when you're so heavy?"
"I understand, you would say that. There is a constant care. That's why I watch this serial. They show how other husbands behave with their wives and there is you should not remind me of my weight again and again. I'm trying my best. I stopped eating sweets now."
"Yes, I understand for six days you follow those ideas and on the seventh day you relish." He starts laughing loudly.
"You are able to never understand my feelings. You're so rude and cool." She turns off the TV angrily and goes into the other room. The husband quietly sits down on the sofa with his laptop with a smile on his face.
From the above mentioned conversation one can conclude how men and women from middle class families talk and discuss characters of daily soaps, how a conversation starts with and ends with, how fiction make a difference people's life indirectly, how women interpret fictional things and conclude about something righteously. Some fictional things can certainly raise women's expectations from their husbands.
Lifting in arms factor could possibly be quite a heavy one for family men but if tried hard, will be very theraputic for family and an inspiration for children.
If most men than women watch lifting in arms scene on TV attentively and if it persuades them to do something than simply to watch, the happiness in women's life would undoubtedly be doubled. And if women become happy by their husband's expressing love differently, many homes in India would certainly be flooded with great happiness.
Replacement factors:
Indian common masses are very emotional. They get mounted on serial characters quickly and become accustomed to see the characters in daily soaps which they see on TV for a long time. They get shocked when any major character is replaced like a main character or supporting actress or actor, mother in law, father in law, brother in law etc who play major roles in daily soaps. Sometimes it happens that despite replacement when viewers watch that serial, they keep remembering the old character at heart and believe that she or he is still acting. This happens with many people. Humans take time for just about any change to just accept generally speaking when a preexisting character is replaced with a brand new one. They make time to accept the brand new one. Somehow all these exact things aren't considered by directors and producers who launch them before launching their family dramas on regional TV channels. Replacement of any favorite character upsets the viewers once they become accustomed to that particular character. Read this following assumptive example: A few gets married with the blessings of elders and starts staying together in a home. Only two of these and 2 years have passed. Husband and wife have quite got used to each others' presence. They shop, eat, drink, fight, share feelings and have fun together. 1 day each morning, the wife just leaves the home without informing her husband. Once the husband returns home from office, he finds another woman who claims to be his wife, tells him to forget the initial one and convinces him that he won't have chance to meet up the initial one. What'll happen in this case? Natural reaction in such situation will be entering shock, sadness, insecurity, depression and confusion. Any sudden change could be pleasant or unpleasant or both. Though some men wish to have such surprises some time in their life but used to factor and emotions will come in between. This is exactly what exactly happens with viewers when replacement of a common actors is completed each of a sudden by a group of TV serials that could be avoided if taken necessary steps for the sake of viewers as a result of whom they have the ability to show whatever content they wish to to be able to entertain them.
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